why we determined to homeschool

sharing extra about how lengthy we intend to homeschool, and why the heck we’re doing it with just a bit over a month left of the college yr. 

Hello pals!

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For in the present day’s submit, I needed to share a bit of bit extra about our homeschool journey and what’s occurring. I’ve alluded to the truth that we’ve had a tough time the previous few months and it’s been tough to navigate how and what to share. I’ve all the time been open with you guys in the case of my life, however the aim of the weblog has all the time been to share MY expertise; not my kids’s. It’s a tough line to stroll, particularly once they’re an enormous a part of my life and I really feel like so a lot of you might be part of our household. On the identical, I by no means need them to really feel like their privateness has been invaded by what I share right here, so I’ve all the time tried to take a fragile method to my content material, particularly as they’ve gotten older.

The nutshell model is that this: we ended up transferring Liv to a different non-public faculty in January. We have been all scuffling with the mind-boggling quantity of homework, exams, and assignments. It was particularly onerous together with her competitors dance schedule. We switched studios and minimize her hours in half, and she or he was nonetheless up till no less than midnight each night time (for the previous 2+ years) making an attempt to complete every thing for varsity. I’m an enormous believer in onerous work and I believe tutorial rigor has its place, nevertheless it was an excessive amount of for everybody. So, she switched and has been thriving.

When she switched faculties, it was the primary time P hasn’t had her large sis in school, which was difficult for her. The Pilot additionally retired, which was an enormous transition, and she or he began to have extra frequent stomachaches. (Her abdomen has bothered her on and off for years, which has all the time nervous me since she had severe reflux as a baby and was on Prilosec and Zantac, which has been recalled for terrifying causes.) She noticed a number of medical doctors, had an ultrasound, her abdomen was deemed “wholesome,” and their solely suggestion was to place her on a PPI once more. She was additionally doing CBT weekly, and typically twice every week. Her abdomen ache and nervousness bought so dangerous that she missed many days of college, and we have been right here making an attempt to maintain up with the insane quantity of homework, classwork, and exams.

The Pilot was house for retirement and was instructing her the content material, ensuring she accomplished the massive packets of classwork, and taking her to high school for exams. He had return to industrial airline coaching and I couldn’t fathom solo parenting, working, and making an attempt to maintain up with the entire faculty work she was lacking, so I requested her to both select to return to high school or we might pull her out, and she or he mentioned, “Please homeschool me.”

I by no means meant to be a instructor, however I’ll do something for our infants and if it’s what P wants proper now, I’m going to do it.

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Additionally price mentioning right here that I made a decision to do a Food Sentivity Test (and another practical labs) and bought to the basis reason for some intestine points, and her gluten sensitivity was extreme. No surprise her abdomen was hurting :/ Since she began the protocols and eliminated gluten, her abdomen ache has vastly decreased.

Our plan now:

– She’s on the waitlist for Liv’s new faculty however realistically received’t be capable of get in till fifth grade

– We’ll homeschool till then and if she decides to return, that’s nice, and if she doesn’t wish to, that’s okay, too.

The humorous factor is that I was actually cautious of homeschooling. Pre-kids thought to myself, “How on earth can a mother or father count on to show their youngsters extra successfully than a instructor?”

In the course of the ladies’ time at school, we’ve had some extraordinary lecturers who’re every thing lecturers ought to be. They love youngsters, love what they’re instructing, they’re above and past. However on the identical time, some lecturers are…not good. They are saying weird issues at school, disgrace kids in entrance of their friends, and this occurs in a non-public faculty setting ALL the time, when you’re paying in your child to be taught by instructors who don’t appear to love kids in any respect. A overwhelming majority of the time, we spent the three to 4 hour block every night time instructing anyway, as a result of they weren’t taught the content material throughout their lessons.

Rising up, I additionally thought that homeschooled youngsters have been most likely awkward as a result of they don’t have as a lot social interplay. The truth is that the entire homeschooled youngsters I’ve met are sort, articulate, pleasant, and extremely good.

Although I’ve seen pals homeschool and sort of daydreamed about how how enjoyable it could be, I didn’t think about it a risk as a result of I work at home, juggling shopper calls, content material creation, podcast interviews, Zooms, IHP work, and many others. I didn’t really feel like I might add one other issues to my plate, however I didn’t even assume twice about it after we bought up to now. I’ve shuffled my schedule round so much so that almost all of my content material creation is completed over the weekend, and the sweetness about homeschool is that it solely takes round two hours every day at this age.

This submit is already tremendous lengthy, so I’ll share one other submit quickly with the curriculum we’re utilizing and the way we construction our days.

Thanks in your kindness and being so wonderful over the previous few months. It’s been a tough yr in some ways (this is only one of them) and being right here with you all every day is a significant vibrant spot. We completed our first full week of homeschool and I’m feeling fairly excited and hopeful about it! I’m additionally grateful that we get to spend some additional time collectively and are wanting into the entire cool homeschool actions that Tucson gives!

xoxo

Gina